* windows: revert process listing logic to that of v1.6.10
In Nomad 1.7 much of the process management code was refactored, including
a rewrite of how the process tree of an executor was determined on Windows
machines. Unfortunately that rewrite has been cursed with performance issues
and bugs. Instead, revert to the logic used in v1.6.10.
* changelog
In #20619 we overhauled how we were gathering stats for Windows
processes. Unlike in Linux where we can ask for processes in a cgroup, on
Windows we have to make a single expensive syscall to get all the processes and
then build the tree ourselves. Our algorithm to do so is recursive and quadratic
in both steps and space with the number of processes on the host. For busy hosts
this hits the stack limit and panics the Nomad client.
We already build a map of parent PID to PID, so modify this to be a map of
parent PID to slice of children and then traverse that tree only from the root
we care about (the executor PID). This moves the allocations to the heap but
makes the stats gathering linear in steps and space required.
This changeset also moves as much of this code as possible into an area
not conditionally-compiled by OS, as the tagged test file was not being run in CI.
Fixes: https://github.com/hashicorp/nomad/issues/23984
