Track usage of incoming streams on a connection. Connections without
reference counts get marked as unused and reaped in a periodic job.
This fixes a bug where `alloc exec` and `alloc fs` sessions get terminated
unexpectedly. Previously, when a client heartbeats switches between
servers, the pool connection reaper eventually identifies the connection
as unused and closes it even if it has an active exec/fs sessions.
Fixes#10579
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